Mistakes.....

Someone once told me, life is about learning from your mistakes. Its one thing to have an ideology but its entirely different if you don't learn the difference between being stubborn and being a slave to ideologies which lead you no where.

I have grown up with that, I have made sure I make mistakes of my own. As life takes me to a new level at this stage of my life, I learn that being mature is one thing but being able to maintain that is another challenge. Thoughts mean a lot but actions can just ruin it all. One act of carelessness is all it takes to ruin what you stand for.

But when you realize that and are able to comprehend it, that's when the actual challenge starts. It take a long time to prove that you are what you say but a second to break it down. It may have numerous reasons but when one can stand beyond that and yet be what one promised, is when the trust grows.

Let’s say you may have been on the wrong side lately and all you want to do is hide yourself in shame. The first thing to do is accept, nothing more than acceptance can pave way for improvement. All you can hope for is a chance to prove that you are more than what you say.

Wait for the opportunity to prepare for every situation every aspect which can pull you down. Stand up for the challenge next time and stand up for who you really are. The only people who would see it would be people who care. That's what matters and that's who you need to be grateful to. 

It is an opportunity to grow a way to prove what you really are.