The Maladies of Pain

Sorrow is a mythical word. It exists and still ceases to exist. The sunrise and sunset appears as and when we want in life. The thought process is endless, and eventually the decision is what makes the difference. Difference is just the contradiction which the mind puts forward to justify your decision. A sorrow of a person is the pleasure of the other though not related. Happiness and troubles have no end, they just transfer from one person to another, just like the law of energy says, “Energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it is just transferred from one body to another.” It is the same with happiness and sorrow. Both exist at the same time but one always has the upper hand, and that is the reflection of your behavior and body language. It is natural and essential that it reflects may be that’s what makes you, YOU. It is often seen that on an average two out of every ten people, are strong enough to pull it off. The most obvious reaction is only during the most extreme moments and rest is obligation to fit in the world.

World is not what it is, it has no existence without us. We make it what it is and still we choose to have obligations just for the sake of fitting in and making relations more complicated. Things can be very straight forward and those things are reflections on our lifetime. Complicated things always have a negative impact, and certain relations always go unnamed, not because they cannot be, but only because we choose not to, and there can be reasons which might seem ridiculous to the world but they always have an impact. It is only during these situations we choose the one with the least collateral damage regardless of the impact that life could change for the best. But still we choose not to see the future, reasons and contradictions always flood our minds making it blind to that happiness which always come after a struggle. It is only struggle and pain that makes us responsible; it is only when we are deprived of something that we realize what we are losing. The smile, the tears are all reflections of the human mind; it is the scale we have created to measure happiness and pain.

We are so occupied with thoughts and so bothered about the outcome that we eventually lose the essence of living life with joy. The joy of living life, is based on freedom to choose and act on what we aspire to be or do. Sacrifices are names to those opportunities which we choose no to take chose. We all want to stay guilt free and happy, the hardest way to give up is to accept it, there is no easy way, there will be pain but how you take it is up to you, whether you take it all at once or in installments, slowly until there is nothing left. In the process of taking it slowly we loose ourselves, we undergo changes, we stop believing in things which we loved to do, we are prone to fall again, we get overcautious and in this process we lose out many other things only because we are still thinking about the pain. Acceptance is the only way to forgive and forget, it gives you peace of mind. Our lives are centered on a debate between the mind and heart. Eventually one of them always wins and sooner or later the result of the decision is there right in front. Then what dawns can be guilt, pain and sorrow or just peace of mind, happiness and satisfaction. The intensity is only the commitment and the journey is the test of the commitment.